- comments way too much on your physical flaws
(mentioning you have small or big features w slight distain) - his family wonders why you’re with him, especially if they know you’re smarter than him
- lovebombing too fast (says/does all the right things very early on)
- they attempt to hide you (no public dates, no pda of ANY kind (even verbal!!))
- the rely on you financially / emotionally
- they are mentally or financially unstable & rely on you in emergencies wayyyyy too much
- they don’t personalize the gifts / things they give you
- they constantly are expecting you to do more for them / never satisfied with the acts of service you do
- they gaslight you about genuinely suspicious behavior / flip arguments onto you & never take full responsibility. if they do they say things like “i’ll just shut up” “im always in the wrong.”
- habitual lying about small things / whereabouts & who they are around ..
i recently was cheated on & abandoned by a man who held all of these qualities. PLEASE leave as soon as you see 2 of these.