I’m in a rough place right now, and I’m relying on family to make ends meet. Recently I’ve begun to realize that my presence is causing them underserved problems and it would probably be better for me to exit their lives for a considerable amount of time.
The problem I have is that they don't want me to stray too far from them, despite the problems I am causing. There's some history that they feel guilt over, and it's causing them to be a little too clingy and lenient with me.
It's honestly becoming too stressful to manage. I can’t afford any proper counseling to help me cope with this, so I have resorted to this site. How can I firmly get them to let go?