My grandma has always tell us my mom and I( 20f) horrible things, for my mom she used to tell her you are raising your child In a horrible way, you think you're a cool mom but you're not she is a good mom and has raised me really well but my grandma oh man I have been growing up with both definitely my mom is my person and not my grandma.
The thing is that my grandma always tell us horrible things for me she says that I'm gonna end alone and that nobody is ever gonna love me she says that she doesn't understand how I can have so many friends she says that she doesn't understand why does people want to be around me.
My self love is horrible and my friends say that I'm awesome that I'm funny that I take care of them and they're awesome too but sometimes I do think that my grandma is right I sometimes cry because I think maybe she is right and in the future I'll die alone and that scares the fuck out of me.
So any advices about not to giving a shit about what my grandma says and how to manage my relationship with her will be awesome, thank you all.
