I just got divorced 1 month and 4 days ago. My now ex-husband is on his second date with his new girlfriend at one of our favorite places. Which he claimed we could no longer afford to go there btw. I’m not jealous. The truth is there isn’t anything to get jealous over he’s the type of guy that will sound great on paper and can never live up to the expectations. I don’t really have many friends and we unfortunately still live together until I can afford to move out. It’s just very uncomfortable to hear him say that he “wants his new relationship to work” yet he’s the reason I chose to walk away and I think I’m just angry that he’s pretending to be this great guy and I just can’t say anything or I might not have a place to sleep like how do I put my head down for so long? They were friends before I was in the picture and she got married to someone else and has been divorced for a bit now and all of a sudden he confessed that he had feelings for her the whole time but couldn’t act on it bc she got married. Yet he wasted 7 years of my life pretending to be all that just to say I just don’t have an emotional connection to you but I would’ve never asked for a divorce. I posted this on the divorced page but honestly I really need to talk to someone I’m very upset and it’s turning into anger and that’s not something I’m ok with I just want to be happy and ok without him influencing any of it but it’s so difficult when I have to follow his rules and be treated like this……
