My wife is incredibly sweet, smart, and caring. Our sex life is great, so my wife has barely ever watched porn in the past 4 years.
Out of the blue one night, I think I feel her masturbating next to me (out of character) and I look up and she’s watching porn (also out of character). Like… raunchy porn. Like… German and Japanese porn. Like… stuff that would normally make her either angry or nauseous. And she continued. For a very long time.
I assume that she’s experimenting and politely go back to sleep — kinda cool. But in the morning, she swears to God (and she’s believable! She is not a good actress as far as I know) that she has no recollection of this occurring.
I prove it to her with the dns cache of our wifi router and the battery usage on her phone. She’s flabbergasted and says she must’ve been sleepwalking and actually cries out of the creeps.
But… this has continued, on and off, almost every other night, for almost a month. She will watch and masturbate for 4, 6 hours. When I talk to her or try to communicate with her, she has a glazed look in her eyes and is talking slowly but confidently. Sometimes she is also affectionate towards me during this time, and sometimes she wants to be left alone. But she has no clue in the morning.
It seems like this happens before stressful days, and we’re in a particularly stressful field. Is this psychological trickery at play, or is there a genuine and possibly clinical disorder at hand?
She has gotten out of the bedroom to get her phone, even once going out to the car. Now I have the password and she doesn’t want to know it.
What’s going on??? What can I do to help?