We have been in a relationship for 4 years. It started out great but the last 2 years have been extremely difficult. It feels like we’re never on the same page. We argue a lot and although we do get on well sometimes, we end up arguing over something small most of the time. I think that all these arguments and constantly talking about breaking up has really messed up my mental health. I don’t know why I start crying every time we argue or he says something that I don’t like to hear. I don’t want to be this sensitive but I can’t help it. I can keep crying all day long and it feels like I have 0 self confidence left. I don’t enjoy doing anything anymore and I procrastinate all my work/chores/activities. Although we keep telling each other we’re not the right match and we should break up, we never really do it. We end up trying to make it work and staying together until the next time we have a bad argument. We also live together which means we see each other all the time. I am so tired of all the unnecessary drama now, l just want to disappear and not have to deal with any of this. I know we should probably break up but I keep thinking we can make it work if we try a little harder/try to be more tolerant of each other. I also don’t have a lot of friends or any family where I live and I really enjoy spending time with my bf when we’re not arguing. I’ve never had therapy/mental health issues before and I’m not too sure what to do.
