Hi everyone, my girlfriend struggles with Bpd, Adhd, and is currently on suicide watch after a really bad depressive episode. I am trying very hard to not take the changes in her behavior and affection personally, and i aim to continue doing so. I understand she’s going through alot right now and doesnt have the energy to be all lovey dovey. I have been trying to be supportive through just trying to be normal with her, try to distract her from her feelings, talk to her like normally, but i realized after she told me that this approach isnt good at all and she feels unsupported. I wanna ask if anyone can guide me as to how I can be supportive properly.
I love her so much and I just want to be there for her. Im finding it hard to balance between being there for her and focusing on my finals.