My partner was diagnosed with BPD.
She constantly says she wants to end her life or drill a hole in her head. She’s seeing a psychiatrist but she has stopped taking her medication because she says none of them are helping.
I feel like our relationship at this point is just her wanting to end her life and me trying to convince her that there are reasons to live.
She’s very sensitive to even small challenges and definitely catastrophizes a lot.
How can I help her? What can I do?