My husband is in a very low spot. He has struggled for years. I don’t know what to do. I have continued to tell him to get help and to get help. He’s on meds that don’t work. He finally reached out but today he is in such a low spot and won’t get out of bed. I’m not sure what to do. Do i check him in to a facility ? Take him to the er ? He’s also a police officer so i am afraid of him loosing his job over this