Why am I so argumentative? I am aware I am, and tend to argue a lot with people, especially people who I know are not going to change their minds or anything. But I just can't stop speaking or drop the topic, or leave. I've been actively trying to avoid/defuse arguments but it feels impossible for me.
The arguments are not over who should do the dishes etc. It's on various social, political, philosophical etc issues. I mostly argue with family and friends.
Why is it so? What can I do to change? Any help is appreciated.