Ive only told my ex and two of my closest friends about my SA. I never made it public mainly because I didn’t want the dude’s future to be ruined. After our breakup, she spread rumors that i lied about my SA for attention but I forgave her and we remained friends. She then asked me about him and i said it made me uncomfortable, but she said he seemed chill when she talked to him. She did mention that she believed me.
Today I found out shes actually dating the person who SA’ed me. I just feel so disgusted, I cant even convey it.