So just recently today I received a video from my ex and in the video she was performing a sexual act. I honestly am a little hurt and not feeling ok. How does a person even react to this. What should I even do I just never experienced this before.
So just recently today I received a video from my ex and in the video she was performing a sexual act. I honestly am a little hurt and not feeling ok. How does a person even react to this. What should I even do I just never experienced this before.
Send it to her dad!
Create a groupchat with her mom and dad and say your concerned for their daughters mental health sending you things like this šš
>How does a person even react to this.
Probably just not at all. Ignore her. Block her if you must.
Delete it. Realize it was pathetic. Forget about it and move on.
Send her a video of you fucking that guy
Send it to the cops. Does the other guy know she’s filmed and sent to you?
Sheās above 18?
You know her family?
Let them know she willingly shares things like thatā¦SUBTLY
Be careful sending to her family because of revenge porn laws in the state.
Be damn glad you didnāt marry her, or even worse have kids with her
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Block her.. Don’t waste energy on it.
It seems like sheās trying to incite some kind of reaction from you. Personally, I think the best ārevengeā in this situation would be to block and delete her without saying a word. Sheāll be seething that she didnāt get the reaction she was looking for and youāll have won without being an asshole back to her
Block, move on. That’s immature behavior.
reply “new phone, who dis? pastor Dave here.ā”
Sue for unwanted sexual contact
Dude thatās so fucked up. Iām sorry she did that to you
leave it seen and ignore it. make her feel pathetic
Ignore people telling you to send something that can get you into stupid and avoidable legal trouble..
You could tell her you’re sending it to them and then block her and let her panic. Delete that garbage too cuz I’m pretty sure it’s trash either way.
Block her and realize sheās not well. Only a super toxic person would go out of their way to hurt someone like that.
Are you sure sheās the one who sent it? Maybe you should ask her. I mean, could it possibly be someone who was jealous of you and wanted to know youād be permanently out of the picture?
Block and delete. This is not worth stress and is a childish game.
Ignore it and be happy you left her. A good person wouldn’t do this.
Do nothing. Say nothing. Donāt feel hurt, youāre not with her for a reason, and the video is proof of this. Soā¦ do nothing, say nothing, feel nothing. Because she feels nothing for you homie.
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My ex is a pornstar. Ofc I have not watched. I got over it with a sense of humor… I taught her everything she knows. Your ex is being petty. Try to be the better person and let it go.
Donāt listen to the antagonizers in here.
Delete that video. Delete all your text/snap threads. Block her on everything. It sucks a ton and is nearly impossible to follow through on, but its the cliche advice for a breakup for a reason. The shit works. Not having daily reminders of her will eventually start to help you. Give it a few months and it wonāt sting like it does now.
A piece of advice. Donāt succumb to her immaturity. That is the most pathetic, embarrassing, and childish thing an ex can possibly do. Be the bigger person. Itāll make you feel and look a lot better in the long run. It will also hurt her so much worse if you seem unaffected by her behavior. Shes baiting you. She wants you to retaliate. Dont give her that satisfaction.
Good luck soldier š«”š«”š«”š«”
Hey, celebrate. You dodged a bullet.
My exes ex sent me stuff of them having sex. I deleted it and told me ex I would be putting it online then blocked her. I was young and immature. Today I would just delete and block.
A) you look into pressing charges, in some states you can
B) you tell her this is really low and also dangerous behavior for someone to engage in, and that if she sends you unsolicited sexual material again youāll press charges. Block her.
The thing is you have to wonder if somebody else got on her phone and sent you the video? So thereās that
Edit; i just read through the thread. Sweet Jesus do not send the video to other parties. Itās fine to text them and tell that she did that, but do not send it. The legal narrative can change swiftly. and something to keep in mind is thereās your sentencing, and then thereās the phenomenon of what you go through when charges are pressed. Itās not cheap and your lawyerās prowess matters. I hope youāre not 19 with bipolar disorder or some BS and have already undertaken the advice of people who come to Reddit to masturbate. Oh god
Don’t do it. You dodged a bullet man! You are better than her as a human and you deserve better. Take the win and move on. Don’t hold grudges, it’s corrosive!