My husband and I see the same therapist l. She’s been great for him but not for me. I have childhood trauma and ptsd in the military. I told my husband I was thinking of stopping therapy because I was crying myself to sleep after our sessions.i asked him not to say anything because I was unsure. He told her.
We also had discussed me possibly having adhd. In one of his sessions he brought up a fight based off our communication styles and she asked him if I had adhd. I know in typical sessions this would come up and be nothing but being we have the same therapist I felt uncomfortable. I told my therapist this and went on to TRY to tell her it was me not being able to separate my husband having the same therapist but she didn’t give me the chance. She then yelled at me. Told me her bad news she just received and asked who I was to question her ethics. She opened her door and told me the session was over. I’m still processing and not sure what to do.